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Parenting

The Kid Whisperer: How to teach responsibility to a high school athlete

The Kid Whisperer: How to teach responsibility to a high school athlete

  • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

Dear Kid Whisperer, My son is a high school basketball player who often forgets his basketball shoes and his practice clothes at home. He went from being apologetic and sheepish when he called me from school to ask me to bring him his stuff, to recently just leaving a message where he was an…

The Kid Whisperer: Parents: What do you think you’re doing?

The Kid Whisperer: Parents: What do you think you’re doing?

  • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

To effectively write this column and do my real job (going around the country teaching adults strategies and procedures for working with kids), I keep my powers of professional perception sharp by often visiting a Variable Stressor Family Interaction Lab (VSFIL), where I can see parents inte…

The Kid Whisperer: How to set limits instead of making suggestions

The Kid Whisperer: How to set limits instead of making suggestions

  • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

Dear Kid Whisperer, I am the father of two daughters. Our first is 7, and our second is 3. They are very different. My wife and I thought we were master parents until we had the second one. The first kid just did everything we told her to do and was very agreeable about it. The 3-year-old ac…

The Kid Whisperer: Behavior management must move out of the Dark Ages

The Kid Whisperer: Behavior management must move out of the Dark Ages

  • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

The failure of colleges of education to teach behavior management is creating PK-12 schools that, through no fault of their own, are in chaos. This chaos is leading to schools churning out anti-social people. Something must be done, and it must be done right now. Behavior management isn’t so…

As literacy rates lag, a pediatric hospital is screening for reading ability

As literacy rates lag, a pediatric hospital is screening for reading ability

  • MAKIYA SEMINERA Associated Press

One Ohio hospital has started checking literacy skills during visits for kids as young as 3 to help spot reading struggles early and coach parents on simple home habits.

As literacy rates lag, a pediatric hospital is screening for reading ability

As literacy rates lag, a pediatric hospital is screening for reading ability

    As concerns rise about lagging childhood literacy rates, a pediatric hospital in Ohio is screening preschoolers for reading skills during regular doctor visits. The program aims to spot problems early and coach parents on simple home activities. (AP Video: Patrick Aftoora-Orsagos)

    The Kid Whisperer: How to make sure you are not raising a manipulative jerk

    The Kid Whisperer: How to make sure you are not raising a manipulative jerk

    • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

    Dear Kid Whisperer, My 9-year-old wants a dog. She started making simple requests for a dog. That led to loud requests, then screaming, and now she throws huge tantrums. As a single parent, I don’t want to get a dog for many reasons (cost, inconvenience, etc.) Even as I write this, I feel so…

    The Kid Whisperer: How to give your kids a shot at happiness, instead of gratification

    The Kid Whisperer: How to give your kids a shot at happiness, instead of gratification

      Dear Kid Whisperer, Like all parents, I like to make my kids happy. I didn’t have a lot growing up, and I now have plenty of resources, so when my three boys (5, 10 and 12) want something, my wife and I like to get it for them. Whether it’s a gumball at the mall, or a video game or a motor scooter, or whatever, it’s easy for us to provide our kids with the things they ask for. However, I think ...

      Kindergarten readiness varies widely by income, new data shows. Cities stepping in to help

      Kindergarten readiness varies widely by income, new data shows. Cities stepping in to help

        Immense disparities exist in whether parents across the country report their child as ready for kindergarten, new data from the National Survey for Children's Health shows.

        The Kid Whisperer: How to get your kid to be nice even when she’s disappointed

        The Kid Whisperer: How to get your kid to be nice even when she’s disappointed

          Dear Kid Whisperer, My daughter is 12. She has always been a whiner. More accurately, she used to whine, and now she yells. Her mother and I have become very good at shielding her from seeing stuff she wants so that we can avoid these situations. We try to avoid taking her to stores (including the grocery store) where she might want things, for example. As she gets older, it seems harder to ...

          2-month-olds see the world in a more complex way than scientists thought, study suggests

          2-month-olds see the world in a more complex way than scientists thought, study suggests

            A new study suggests that babies can distinguish between objects at 2 months old, earlier than scientists previously thought.

            The Kid Whisperer: How to raise a financially responsible family member

            The Kid Whisperer: How to raise a financially responsible family member

              Dear Kid Whisperer, I want my kids to be responsible people. They are 1 and 3 years old. I know that chores need to be a part of their lives. Obviously, they are too young now, but I want them to be ready for life. I want them to learn about money, but I have no clue how much to pay them for their chores once they are old enough. Thoughts? Answer: You are very much on the right track! How ...

              Ultra-Processed Foods May Heighten Cognitive Decline

              Ultra-Processed Foods May Heighten Cognitive Decline

                Some things are out of our control, like cognitive decline, but we can slow it down if we make the right choices. Veuer’s Maria Mercedes Galuppo has the story.

                How to talk to kids about immigration, ICE and recent killings

                How to talk to kids about immigration, ICE and recent killings

                  If you avoid the subject, kids can fill the gap with misinformation and worst-case scenarios they’ve conjured.

                  Movies

                  Actor James Tolkan of 'Top Gun' and 'Back to the Future' fame dies at 94

                  Actor James Tolkan of 'Top Gun' and 'Back to the Future' fame dies at 94

                  Lisa Kudrow returns as the fearless actress in ‘The Comeback’

                  Lisa Kudrow returns as the fearless actress in ‘The Comeback’

                  Review: ‘The Comeback’ sharpens its blades for artificial intelligence

                  Review: ‘The Comeback’ sharpens its blades for artificial intelligence

                  Composer of iconic 'Lion King' chant sues comedian over 'Circle of Life' translation

                  Composer of iconic 'Lion King' chant sues comedian over 'Circle of Life' translation

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                  Actor James Tolkan of 'Top Gun' and 'Back to the Future' fame dies at 94

                  AI is giving bad advice to flatter its users, new study says

                  AI is giving bad advice to flatter its users, new study says

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                  8 ways a mammogram can help you lead a better, healthier life

                  8 ways a mammogram can help you lead a better, healthier life

                  Content by Shenandoah Medical Center. Find out how a mammogram can help empower you to take charge of your health, confidence and future.

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                  The walleye whisperer: Your two adventurous spots for landing trophy fish this summer

                  The walleye whisperer: Your two adventurous spots for landing trophy fish this summer

                  Content by Ballard's Resort. Read the tale of amateur angler Doobie Flathers, one of the most prolific walleye fishermen of his time.

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                  Shinrin-yoku: Recharge your spirit with the Japanese art of forest bathing

                  Shinrin-yoku: Recharge your spirit with the Japanese art of forest bathing

                  Get Healthy. If you’re feeling mentally or emotionally worn down, a forest bath may be just the ticket to clear and cleanse your mind and spirit. Here are a few tips on how to make the most of the experience.

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                  What is best solution for unwanted hair in sensitive places?

                  Content by Milan Laser Hair Removal. These laser hair removal experts share their observations and insights about the benefits of Brazilian laser hair removal vs. Brazilian waxing.

                  Shopping

                  Survey: Impulse Buys May Be Ruining Some Americans’ Finances

                  Survey: Impulse Buys May Be Ruining Some Americans’ Finances

                  Long gone are the days where impulse buying meant grabbing an unplanned candy bar or magazine in the checkout line. Now, social media makes it quick and easy for us to purchase just about anything with the click of a button, whether or not it’s in the budget. And for some Americans, it’s hurting them...

                  Holiday Shoppers Beware: 3 Traps to Avoid as Scammers Prepare

                  Holiday Shoppers Beware: 3 Traps to Avoid as Scammers Prepare

                  Black Friday is fast approaching, and shoppers are gearing up. The National Retail Federation expects more than 183 million people to shop over the weekend spanning Thanksgiving to Cyber Monday this year. But fraudsters are preparing for Black Friday too, looking for opportunities to steal your money or personal information. Before you dive into holiday...

                  Survey: Many Gift-Buying Parents Pressured to Overspend This Holiday Season

                  Holiday shopping season is upon us, and the pressure is on, or at least it feels that way for some parents. A new NerdWallet survey, conducted by The Harris Poll, finds that 48% of parents with children under 18 feel pressure to spend more money on holiday gifts than they’re comfortable spending.According to NerdWallet’s annual...

                  Data: Americans Spending Less Time, More Money on Shopping

                  Data: Americans Spending Less Time, More Money on Shopping

                  Buying things takes less time these days — you can have your week’s groceries, a new outfit and a used car headed to your front door in a matter of hours, thanks to technology. But this convenience comes with a price. New data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics reveals fewer people are shopping on...

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