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Parenting

The Kid Whisperer: How bad child-raising advice has come to dominate our culture

The Kid Whisperer: How bad child-raising advice has come to dominate our culture

  • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

We are living through The Era of Collective Parental Psychosis: a time whereby we have forsaken the Collective Parental Wisdom amassed by parents throughout all of human evolution to instead favor irrational and nonsensical ideas about raising kids. This collective wisdom had been spread in …

The Kid Whisperer: How to handle a kid who wants to control everything

The Kid Whisperer: How to handle a kid who wants to control everything

  • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

Dear Kid Whisperer, How do you handle an almost 4-year-old who wants to control everything? He had a friend over and I was outside with the friend’s parents. It started to rain, so we said we were going inside, and my son stood in front of the door with his arms stretched and said, “No we ar…

The Kid Whisperer: How to teach your kid about the world through rough and tumble play

The Kid Whisperer: How to teach your kid about the world through rough and tumble play

  • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

I was recently, and mercifully, on vacation. The hotel pool was packed with people, many of whom had their children of all ages in the pool with them. Teenagers threw footballs, toddlers were swimming with floaties, and kids were swimming and jumping into the pool I was the only parent in th…

The Kid Whisperer: How to decide what behaviors you want from your kids

The Kid Whisperer: How to decide what behaviors you want from your kids

  • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

Dear Kid Whisperer, I have been using your strategies with my kids, and their behavior has improved so much that I feel like I am able, for the first time, to really get them to act like I want them to act. But now I think I need to consider exactly what behaviors I want them to use. I heard…

The Kid Whisperer: How to deal with clashing parenting styles in shared custody

The Kid Whisperer: How to deal with clashing parenting styles in shared custody

  • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

Dear Kid Whisperer, I came to see a parent workshop you did, and I used the strategies that you taught. It has changed my life and my relationship with my daughter. The problem is, I am divorced from her father, who has shared custody. He doesn’t have these strategies; he is mean, and he yel…

The Kid Whisperer: How to maintain a functional home when neighbor kids invade

The Kid Whisperer: How to maintain a functional home when neighbor kids invade

  • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

Dear Kid Whisperer, I live in a neighborhood with a lot of families, and we often end up with other people's children playing at our house. Having these playmates is great for my 8-year-old daughter, but not so great for me, because I end up parenting everybody else's kids. Is it appropriate…

The Kid Whisperer: How teachers can teach life’s most important lesson

The Kid Whisperer: How teachers can teach life’s most important lesson

  • Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service

Dear Kid Whisperer, What if a student completely refuses to participate in a Delayed Learning Opportunity? I don’t mean he just sits there until he eventually starts doing it, but instead runs out of the room and out to recess, or something along those lines? Answer: While this is a challeng…

Parents, you aren't the boss of your family spending. It's the kids

Parents, you aren't the boss of your family spending. It's the kids

    Youths between the ages of 8 and 15 directly control $95 billion and have a sway over bigger-picture household spending, a new study shows.

    A-Listers Who Are Raising Their Kids Beyond Gender Norms

    A-Listers Who Are Raising Their Kids Beyond Gender Norms

      In recent years, more celebrity parents have been opening up about raising their children without strict gender stereotypes, encouraging individuality over labels and expectations. In a 2018 Vogue interview, Beyoncé shared that she teaches her daughters to see themselves as leaders, saying t…

      The Kid Whisperer: How to get rid of your school’s warning system

      The Kid Whisperer: How to get rid of your school’s warning system

        Dear Kid Whisperer, I teach in an urban K-8 school. Several years ago, we got a new administrator who took a lot of control away from the teachers and, in my opinion, has made teachers do many things that I believe have made behaviors worse. One thing she has done is to make sure that kids get warnings in the classroom, and that we have a system of warnings. This has made behavior worse across ...

        New study shows egg allergies are falling among children

        New study shows egg allergies are falling among children

          In 2008, The American Academy of Pediatrics recommended people introduce eggs to children by the time they are 6 months old.

          The Kid Whisperer: How to end battles about grades

          The Kid Whisperer: How to end battles about grades

            Dear Kid Whisperer, My wife and I are at our wits’ end with our 16-year-old son. He isn’t a behavior problem and never has been. The problem is that since middle school, he has basically refused to work toward anything but barely passing grades in math, and now that most science classes involve math, he’s almost failing in those classes too. His grades in every other class that do not involve ...

            The Kid Whisperer: How to improve the behaviors of ALL students

            The Kid Whisperer: How to improve the behaviors of ALL students

              Dear Kid Whisperer, I am a substitute teacher looking to obtain my special education teaching license, and I am reading your book. Given that the practical tools you offer work well with the most challenging students, does this also include special education students with behavioral challenges, including autistic students? Answer: First, you are a hero for expanding your own education so that ...

              The Kid Whisperer: How to stop owning your kid’s irresponsibility

              The Kid Whisperer: How to stop owning your kid’s irresponsibility

                Dear Kid Whisperer, The words “I know!” are going to make me lose my mind. My 16-year-old says this every time he’s leaving the house and I remind him to not forget something like his backpack or swimsuit or wallet. I know that he does not “know”: If I didn’t remind him, he would forget. He used to simply state these words, but now he yells them at me. I obviously can’t let him leave without ...

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                Shinrin-yoku: Recharge your spirit with the Japanese art of forest bathing

                Shinrin-yoku: Recharge your spirit with the Japanese art of forest bathing

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                Survey: Impulse Buys May Be Ruining Some Americans’ Finances

                Survey: Impulse Buys May Be Ruining Some Americans’ Finances

                Long gone are the days where impulse buying meant grabbing an unplanned candy bar or magazine in the checkout line. Now, social media makes it quick and easy for us to purchase just about anything with the click of a button, whether or not it’s in the budget. And for some Americans, it’s hurting them...

                Holiday Shoppers Beware: 3 Traps to Avoid as Scammers Prepare

                Holiday Shoppers Beware: 3 Traps to Avoid as Scammers Prepare

                Black Friday is fast approaching, and shoppers are gearing up. The National Retail Federation expects more than 183 million people to shop over the weekend spanning Thanksgiving to Cyber Monday this year. But fraudsters are preparing for Black Friday too, looking for opportunities to steal your money or personal information. Before you dive into holiday...

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